Q:Ya know Nomi I can't seem to learn to love myself and it sucks
That’s rough. And something sort of unteachable, I guess. I’m reading The Four Agreements right now and a massive part of it is that we have to love ourselves, and forgive ourselves, and cut ourselves some slack if we want to navigate the world, or change the world for that matter.
You’re here. And that’s a big deal. That’s important. You’re important.
she is my idol .
Maybe someone is offering you flowers, but you’re not reaching out for them. Maybe someone cares for you, but you don’t even realise. Maybe someone thinks you’re interesting, but you’re getting bored of yourself. Never undermine what you mean to others.
Feeling unsure and lost is part of your path. Don’t avoid it. See what those feelings are showing you and use it. Take a breath. You’ll be okay. Even if you don’t feel okay all the time.